2023.

Welcome, inspiring minds!

“Goodbye, goodbye, goodbye, you were bigger than the whole sky. You were more than just a short time” - Taylor Swift

If there is one word I would use to describe 2023, it would be growth. There have been lot of challenges this year. But instead of letting those things demoralize me and bring me down, I made the decision to keep going. To become better because it. To think of all the times I started over, all the times I cried out, all the times I reached out for support, and all the times I handled things all on my own, proud is an understatement.

I would argue that the circumstances that were presented to me this year made me better and taught me a lot in the process. Even if I had to change 50 times in the process. I am trying, I am evolving. As they say, “You learn more from failure than from success. Don’t let it stop you. Failure builds character.”

Here are some of the key moments that I learned some hard lessons:

Embracing Vulnerability
At the start of this year, I realized that vulnerability isn’t a sign of weakness—it’s a sign of courage. For so long, I held onto the idea that I needed to have everything figured out, that I needed to be “strong” all the time. But I learned that true strength comes from allowing yourself to be vulnerable, to ask for help when you need it, and to be open to learning from others. I found that asking for support isn’t a defeat; it’s an opportunity for connection and growth.

1. The Power of Letting Go
   This year taught me the importance of letting go—not just of material things, but of situations, expectations, and even relationships that were no longer serving me. Holding on too tightly to something that no longer fits or benefits you only drains your energy. Letting go can feel uncomfortable, but it’s also liberating. I began to understand that when we let go, we make space for new opportunities to flow in, ones that align with who we are becoming, not who we once were.

2. The Strength in Consistency
   There were days when everything felt like too much, and I doubted my ability to keep going. But I learned that consistency—showing up day after day, even when progress feels slow or invisible—creates momentum. Small steps lead to big change. I didn’t have to be perfect; I just had to keep moving forward. The act of showing up for myself, day in and day out, was the most profound lesson of all.

3. Growth Isn’t Linear
   At times, I found myself frustrated by setbacks, wondering why the progress wasn’t as fast as I’d hoped. But I learned that growth is not linear. It’s messy. It’s full of starts and stops, twists and turns. There were moments where I thought I was “failing,” but what I realized was that these moments were not setbacks—they were lessons. Growth happens in cycles, and every step—no matter how small—was still a step forward.

4. The Importance of Self-Compassion
   For much of the year, I struggled with perfectionism. I would beat myself up over mistakes and missed opportunities, always demanding more of myself. But I realized that self-compassion is just as important as self-discipline. It’s okay to not have all the answers. It’s okay to make mistakes. It’s okay to be human. Embracing my imperfections didn’t make me weaker; it made me stronger and more resilient.

   Finally, here are some amazing moments that occurred:

   1.My relationships grew to a new level.

   Watching my nieces and nephews chase their dreams has been nothing short of inspiring. Seeing the world through their eyes, full of hope and endless possibility, reminds me that growth isn't just something we do in solitude—it’s something we share with others. They teach me every day how to dream big, and how to do so with an unwavering sense of wonder.

   2. Finding a place where I could sit, watching as time goes by, and realizing how beautiful life truly is.

   Sometimes, we get so caught up in the rush of everything that we forget to pause, to truly see life. But this year, I learned to appreciate the quiet moments—those still, reflective moments where you just sit, breathe, and realize how incredibly precious life is, even in its simplest forms. I’ve learned that in stillness, we often find the deepest clarity.

   The importance of being grounded—from familial relationships to strong friendships to spiritual well-being and faith.

   Throughout 2023, I’ve come to realize how essential it is to stay grounded. Family, friends, and faith have been the roots that have held me steady through turbulent times. The bonds we cultivate, the trust we nurture, and the faith we keep in ourselves and in something greater than us—these are the things that keep us strong. When life pulls us in every direction, these are the pillars that bring us back home.

   3. Confidence in who I am.

   This year, I found a new level of confidence—one that comes not from external validation, but from within. Confidence isn't about having all the answers or always being "right." It’s about accepting who you are, flaws and all, and knowing that you are enough. And with that confidence, I’ve learned to walk my path with purpose, trusting that every step, no matter how uncertain, is still a step in the right direction.

   4. Being independent and learning to do things by myself.

   I also learned the power of independence. There’s strength in standing on your own, making decisions that align with your true self, and taking ownership of your journey. It’s not about isolating yourself, but about knowing that you are capable, resilient, and self-sufficient.

   5. Learning the art of letting go.

   Letting go was one of the most profound lessons this year. I’ve learned that holding on to what no longer serves me only keeps me tethered to the past. The act of releasing—whether it’s letting go of old grudges, outdated expectations, or relationships that no longer fit—has allowed me to move forward with a lighter heart and a clearer mind.

   6. Becoming more private with my life.

   There’s something empowering about choosing what parts of your life you share with the world, and what you keep for yourself. I’ve grown more protective of my personal space, my thoughts, and my energy. Not everything needs to be shared. Sometimes, the most meaningful moments are the ones you hold closest to your heart.

   7. 8Having no regrets.

   If there’s one thing I can say with certainty, it’s this: I have no regrets. Every choice, every mistake, every triumph has been part of my journey. I’ve come to understand that regret doesn’t serve us—it only keeps us stuck in the past. So, I’ve made peace with my decisions, trusting that each one led me to exactly where I’m meant to be.

   8. Finding joy.

   Through all the trials and tribulations of this year, I’ve found joy in the little things. It’s not always about the big milestones or the grand successes—it’s the quiet moments of laughter with loved ones, the satisfaction of personal growth, the peace that comes from doing something that brings you joy, no matter how small.

As I reflect on the past year, I realize how much has changed—not just in my life, but within me. Every challenge, every lesson, and every step forward has been part of a greater journey. Growth, as I’ve learned, isn’t a single moment—it’s a collection of choices, of perseverance, and of a deep commitment to evolving into who we are meant to be.

This year, I grew not only in my independence but in my relationships, in my ability to let go, and in my understanding of what it means to truly be myself. I’ve learned to embrace vulnerability, to trust the process of change, and to find strength in moments of stillness.

But perhaps most importantly, I’ve learned that growth isn’t linear. It’s messy, it’s uncomfortable, and it’s often unpredictable. But it’s also beautiful. The journey, with all its ups and downs, has made me who I am today—and for that, I am deeply grateful.

So, as we move forward into the unknown of another year, I encourage you to remember this: growth is a daily practice. It’s not about waiting for a perfect moment to change, but about embracing the moments you have now and choosing, every day, to evolve. The beauty of growth is that it never stops—it’s a lifelong process. So, let’s commit to becoming the best versions of ourselves, not tomorrow, but today.

Because in the end, the only thing standing between where we are and where we want to be is the choice to keep moving forward. And no matter where you are on your journey, you are already exactly where you need to be.

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***These are my personal opinions and may not be those of my employer.***